You guys have put me in the middle for a long time now. i'm done. after hearing both sides for so long this is the only thing i can come up with. Apologize. Both of you. Neither of you feels you did wrong. Both of you are Hurt. Apologizing isn't admitting defeat or saying that you are wrong. Its saying you value the person more than your own ego. Both of you aren't good at communicating. Mary - you're typing leads to confusion and when mom is sincerely asking what you mean, you think she is being mean. she isn't. mom when you were told that mary meant "leave IT alone" instead of "leave ME alone" (mary you simply typed "leave alone") you still continued to push Mary away. TALK to each other. LISTEN to each other.
apologize and get it over with. i'm done being in the middle and i'm done of being accused of taking sides. i am NEUTRAL. and i am DONE with this.
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