Thursday, March 13, 2025

Pastoral care final - notes

  •  Classism... i tend to be a bit prejudice towards though in an upper class
  • sexism ... i enheriently trust me less. however i try to remain as empathetic as possible to their struggles and try to make sure i don't cmpare them to the level of women... "its not the struggle Olympics" 
  • sexism: I tend to have a overly protective initial emo0tional reaction to women i feel are forced into traditional or not healthy dynamics and roles 
  • pagan perspective working with a former Christian turned atheist. 


intersectional  - where my iceburg crosses into his experiences and influences my care (above points)
life limiting belief that he had 
values, emotions, beleifs, coping -- identifying his 4 pillars  --- alcoholism 
wanting to be non religious... opening with a reading and then leading into questions of forgiveness, grudges, revenge, and being unable to let go. pleasure at one upping, etc. --- leading into different points of view - you don't owe anyone forgiveness. Then it turning to psychoology with narcassistic abuse and understanding the power dynamic and manipulation - cptsd and human nature. which also leads to his coping mechanism - alcoholism. weaing his drinks. dry january. he went 6 months and relapsed over new years. 

look at highlighted and dog eared pages for quotes 

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