Glamour Magic Work Shop

 How I define it:

"Glamour magic is a feedback loop of love and prosperity. Essentially, you manifest your desires through self care and love. We are divine beings - when we support and care for ourselves, we are supporting and caring for the divine energy of the world. In return, the divine energy of the world will support and care for us. The more we love ourselves, the more we take care the universe or Spirit, and the more the universe/Spirit loves and takes care of us.

This is energy work. By devoting yourself to honoring your own divinity and supporting yourself, you shift your energy to become magnetic. This really is a you-attract-what-you-give in a nutshell. You can do this through various forms of self care such as adornment through cosmetics and jewlery, what you wear, skin care, diet, going to the gym, mirror work, etc." 

Online definition:

"Glamour magic is a form of witchcraft focused on altering perception to enhance personal beauty, confidence, and magnetism, often using daily routines like makeup, fashion, and intentionality to shift how one is seen by the world. It is energy-based, using personal power to attract desires like love or success, rather than physically changing one's appearance. "

why do I want to be a spiritual director?

Who am I as a spiritual direction:

hello, I'm Pixie, a queer bardic witch and pagan mystic. As such, I have a lot of experience as someone who lives on the less conventional side of society. I have a variety of spiritual practices, one of which is spiritual companionship. I am a firm believer that the divine is within all things, it makes up who we are as living souls and consciousness. Not everyone has a religion, but everyone has a spirit - a sacred authenticity that deserves to be heard and honored. I want to provide a time and place that allows people to truly experience, express, and explore that sacred authenticity. For some, this can include a relationship with a sense of the divine, and for others it is a relationship with just themselves. I want to help others explore how they see themselves, how they see the world, ponder their deepest life questions, and feel empowered to live a life that brings their greatest happiness. This could be in a religious, spiritual, or secular context - to me all are the same and I can approach it from a way that feels most comfortable for you. 

 I want to meet everyone as they are, where they are on their journey, and be a companion who walks with them for a time - be that for a single session, as needed encounters, or consistent meetings. I believe all people hold value, all people have stories to be heard, and everyone deserves to truly be seen regardless of their religious or spiritual orientation. If you feel that I am someone you would feel safe to be vulnerable with and explore the core of who you are, I would be honored to offer you an introductory companionship session to see if we would be compatible. Is this something you'd be interested in?

Why I want to seek spiritual direction?

I want to better my relationship with my gods, spiritual friends and guides, and the divinity within myself. I need an accountability-buddy and someone to be able to have designated spiritual conversations with. It is a form of self care and once I start my own practice, will be something that holds me accountable as well. 

Affirmation, a notice or witness  - what inspires and what challenges?

Chinese ethics summary

•  Kongzi/Confuscious 
• Moral cultivation is central
• The goal of life is to become a junzi (exemplary person).
• Moral excellence isn’t innate or automatic; it requires lifelong practice, reflection, and self-discipline.
• "Ren"/ Humanness --> the highest virtue 
• Ren involves empathy, concern for others, and moral sensitivity. 
• It’s expressed through everyday interactions, not abstract rules.
• "Li"/Ritual 
• Rituals, customs, and social norms train emotions and behavior.
• Proper ritual practice helps internalize respect, restraint, and harmony.
• Ethical relationships are foundational
• Moral life is relational: ruler–minister, parent–child, friend–friend.
• Filial piety (xiao) is the root of moral development.
• Moral leadership over coercion
• Good rulers govern through virtue and example, not punishment.
• A morally cultivated ruler inspires people to behave well voluntarily.
• Learning (xue) and reflection (si)
• Study of tradition and constant self-examination are essential.
• Knowledge without reflection is shallow; reflection without learning is dangerous.
• A Focus on THIS world. 
• Confucius avoids metaphysics and the afterlife.
• Emphasis is on how to live well here and now.
• Mengzi/Mencius
• Human nature is good (xing shan)
• Humans are born with moral tendencies, not moral neutrality or corruption.
• Evil arises from neglect, bad environments, or poor governance.
• The Four Sprouts --> these need cultivation like plants
• Compassion → ren (humaneness)
• Shame/disgust → yi (righteousness)
• Deference → li (ritual propriety)
• Moral judgment → zhi (wisdom)
• Moral motivation is internal
• People are moved to act morally by their own hearts, not fear of punishment.
• True morality requires acting from concern for what is right, not self-interest.
• Critique of rival views
• Rejects egoism (e.g., Yang Zhu) and extreme altruism (e.g., Mozi).
• Argues Confucianism offers a balanced moral psychology.
• Benevolent governance
• Rulers must care for people’s material well-being (food, stability).
• Only then can moral cultivation realistically occur.
• Right to resist immoral rulers
• A tyrant who destroys ren is no longer a true ruler.
• Overthrowing such a figure is morally permissible.
• Zhuangzi -- Daoist focus
• Skepticism about fixed distinctions
• Challenges rigid binaries like right/wrong, useful/useless, life/death.
• Human judgments are perspectival, shaped by limited viewpoints.
• Limits of language and reason
• Language divides the world artificially.
• Philosophical debate often traps us rather than leading to genuine understanding.
• Dao as spontaneous process
• The Dao is not a moral rulebook but the natural, ever-changing way of things.
• Trying to impose order or rigid norms disrupts harmony.
• Wuwei  non-coercive action/non-action)
• Ideal action is effortless, responsive, and unforced.
• Exemplified by skilled figures (e.g., Cook Ding) who act in harmony with natural patterns.
• Freedom from social roles and conventions
• Social norms, moral codes, and reputations often constrain genuine flourishing.
• True freedom comes from releasing attachment to status, success, and approval.
• Acceptance of change and mortality
• Life and death are transformations within the Dao.
• Fear and grief arise from clinging to fixed identities and expectations.
• The “usefulness of uselessness”
• What seems useless by conventional standards may preserve freedom and life.
• Refusal to serve power can be a form of wisdom.
• Spiritual transformation (xin zhai; zuo wang)
• “Fasting of the mind” and “sitting in forgetfulness” describe practices of emptying rigid perspectives.
• These practices allow alignment with the Dao beyond social conditioning.

Summary comparison:

• Confucius: Cultivate virtue through ritual, roles, and tradition.
• "Filial piety and fraternal respect—are they not the root of humaneness (ren)?" (1.2)
• Moral life begins in family relationships
• Ren grows out of concrete practices, not abstract principles
• Ethics is relational and developmental
• If you guide them with virtue and keep them in line with ritual, they will have a sense of shame and reform themselves.” (2.3)
• Moral leadership > punishment
• Shame as a moral emotion cultivated by li
• Early Confucian political philosophy
• "In a neighborhood, it is humaneness that makes it beautiful.” (4.1)
• Ren is socially visible and transformative
• Moral excellence improves everyday life
• Anti-individualistic ethics
• “If I am not eager to learn, I do not enlighten; if I am not struggling to express myself, I do not explain.” (7.8)
• Active, effortful learning
• Moral education requires personal engagement
• Confucius as teacher, not dogmatist
• Mencius: Cultivate innate moral sprouts to achieve ethical order.
• “Anyone who suddenly sees a child about to fall into a well would feel alarm and compassion…” 2A6
• Innate moral concern
• Compassion is spontaneous, not calculated
• Foundation of the human nature is good thesis
• "The feeling of compassion is the sprout of humaneness…” (4 sprouts) 6A2
• Moral psychology (sprouts → virtues)
• Ethics grounded in emotional responsiveness
• Cultivation = nurturing, not imposing
• "Only when people have a stable livelihood will they have a stable heart.” 1A7
• Moral cultivation depends on social conditions
• Political responsibility for ethical life
• Contrast with purely moralistic theories
• "I have heard of killing a villain Zhou, but not of murdering a ruler." 1B8
• Moral limits of political authority
• Tyranny voids legitimacy
• Strong moral critique of power
• Zhuangzi: Let go of moral fixations and social norms to achieve freedom and harmony.
• Where Confucius and Mencius emphasize ethical improvement, Zhuangzi emphasizes existential liberation—questioning whether our standards of “improvement” are themselves the problem.
• "“Its uselessness is what allows it to live out its natural years.”" - useless tree #1
• Critique of social utility
• Freedom through non-conformity
• Resistance to political exploitation
• "“How do I know that what I call knowing is not really ignorance?” #2
• Radical perspectival skepticism
• Undermines fixed distinctions (right/wrong, true/false)
• Epistemological humility - we should be modest about what we think we know.
• “I meet it with my spirit rather than looking at it with my eyes.” #3
• Wuwei as skilled spontaneity
• Harmony with natural patterns (Dao)
• Non-deliberative excellence
• "She had merely gone to sleep, and now she had awakened.” #6
• Acceptance of life and death
• Emotional freedom through perspective shift
• Letting go of fixed identity
• “Do not listen with your ears, but with your mind… then listen with your vital energy.” #7
• Emptying rigid judgments
• Spiritual practice beyond morality
• Alignment with the Dao

Confucius (Analects 1.2, 2.3):

→ Morality grows through ritual, roles, and learning

Mencius (2A6, 6A2):

→ Morality grows by nurturing innate moral emotions

Zhuangzi (2, 3):

→ Flourishing comes from letting go of moral and social fixation

Pendulum by Christine Valters Paintner

A silver coin sails across

the black sky making everyone

who sees it rich.

I know too what it is to feel

my poverty when the bowl

of night rolls down over me

with its ceramic thunk.

Some days I am swollen with

possibility, a ripe plum,

fingers sticky with sweetness,

while others I am hollowed out,

a bone scraped clean,

gleaming under the

weight of midday sun.

Many evenings my dreams

extend only as far as the garden gate,

desperate to unlatch the

red and rusted hook,

while others I throw away

the compass and cast myself

into sleep’s blue boat and

see where I wash ashore. 

What gifts and aspects of a SD apply to me?

❖The natural gifts of a spiritual director may include discernment; 

• guiding others in prayer and silence; 
• ability to note and draw attention to the significant insights and sensed movements arising in the directee; 
• capacity for depth and breadth; 
• acknowledgement of spiritual freedom; 
• grounding in stability; 
• interpersonal rapport; 
• the ability to meet a directee where they are and hold a safe space for them and their spiritual exploration 

❖ Others recognize the director’s inherent qualities, such as 

• accountability; 
• wisdom; 
• gentleness; 
• compassion; 
• maturity; 
• caring; 
• prayerfulness; 
• traveling a recognizable spiritual journey; 
• personal integration; 
• openness to self, others, and the transcendent

❖ Honors contemplative connection: 

• Directors seek to connect others with the deepest of truths; 
• to support the spiritual transformation of self, others and the world; 
• to embrace holism by integrating mind, body, will, and spirit 

❖Listens deeply: noticing, tracking, distinguishing, prioritizing, paraphrasing, waiting, probing,

challenging, and disclosing—always to serve the directee and the spiritual direction relationship.

❖ Maintains an inner life practice: including prayer or other contemplative practice, reflection, deepening self-awareness, and familiarity with personal gifts, limitations, and wounds, recognizing that all these affect the spiritual direction relationship.

❖ Honors healthy interpersonal boundaries: understanding when and how to make appropriate

referrals; acknowledging assumptions and personal biases, and recognizing when those get in the way of the spiritual direction; recognizes and avoids dual relationships.

❖ Exhibits habits of self-care and care for others 

I am able to approach spirituality from multiple avenues - as an experience and as a belief. One can have both or just one. \

I feel like spiritual direction/companionship is just shining a light on what is already there to until our companion is able to see it themselves. We don't mold or shape - we just exist as a light. 

More wedding daydreaming

 Okay so what if 

- get married on a nature preserve? Discounted or free. 

- reception at a private room in a restaurant; cash bar but for those that are sober we could offer zero proof drink options. 

* bar cart (apartif, whiskey alternative, tequila alternative, gin alternative, and rum alternative) 

https://www.ritualzeroproof.com/products/ritual-bar-cart-bundle-1?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=paid&utm_campaign=26010305_Conversion_RTUAL_RTUALT_NAT_USA_USOA_NORA_USD_AWA_AO_1-01-2026_6-30-202_4904580655_26007668&utm_term=26007298_BROAD_ADEA_mixed_RTUAL_RTUALT_FBM_FBIG_USA_AWA_PSOC_SOCAD_MIXD_DCM_NU_26206216_MIXED_ALBRP_A21+_CXD_EN_NU_AO_NU_NU_NAT_NU_OTH&utm_content=26010305_RTUAL_RTUALT_NAT_USA_NORA_ADEA_PSOC_SOCAD_VIDE_10SECV_EN_VIDSY+1_SHOP+NOW_F26_Q3_JFM&fbadid=120238823498550692&utm_id=120236999380570692&fbclid=IwRlRTSAPweQZleHRuA2FlbQEwAGFkaWQBqyySsrMelHNydGMGYXBwX2lkCjY2Mjg1NjgzNzkAAR5iQLc7iB0cChCIV9qDlb8J2ip07sBycrsRq6ZUQt0Kn9lyOrpY3x36rfG0YQ_aem_0E_wEixStjuL9_zmGP6eJg

**Wine alternatives: Apothekary drops. 1 full dropper for a cup of water or juice. Add sparkling water and that gives it bubbly 

OKAY ran this by him after momma suggested it. 

- Intimate Dinner Reception with live music, formal dances, and speeches -- dry 

- After party at a bar or club for alcohol and actual dancing for those who want to 

*This would allow for children past a certain age to attend the ceremony and reception (although they would have to be included in our 50 people headcount... so depending on who we want to invite we may still be childfree) and the anyone with kids who wants to party party can get a babysitter. 

1. I want Momma to walk me down the Isle 

2. Do the father daughter dance divided between Otis and Woolard. 

3. I want our first dance to either be Dandelions by Ruth B or Bright by Echosmith and the other to be what I walk down the isle to. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z_8ZXfaNCAc

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/GxSkKpDETZs --- oh god I started crying listening to this. 

Realistic Designer wedding outfits

 okay so if I were to get this dress:

https://www.etsy.com/listing/4429002798/dusty-blue-tulle-prom-dressoff-shoulder?ls=s&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=blue+chiffon+corset+gown&ref=sr_gallery-1-18&sr_prefetch=1&pf_from=search&pro=1&frs=1&content_source=b3e41091-889c-4e0e-b12e-f99ffbd8c211%253ALT174fac82bcbeb748b355bc14a3b30c64dd52b32c&organic_search_click=1&logging_key=b3e41091-889c-4e0e-b12e-f99ffbd8c211%3ALT174fac82bcbeb748b355bc14a3b30c64dd52b32c

Add:

- champagne floral appliques 

- seen in terracotta crystals  

to look like this:

This could be really do-able. 

 for about $900 I could probably see if ...

Couture Sewing Collective or Salha Tailoring could do the work. 

Ask for:

- bodice appliqué embroidery ($500–$650)

- crystal waist cluster ($200–$300)

Option 2:

this dress:

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1673203567/jaylah-blue-off-shoulder-wedding-dress?ls=s&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=champagne+dress+with+blue+floral&ref=sr_gallery-1-55&sr_prefetch=1&pf_from=search&pro=1&frs=1&hc=1&content_source=f7646731-21d0-40bc-be57-4a1ced816738%253ALTe55db63a452601de06ce1dd51bb6781b6965d786&organic_search_click=1&logging_key=f7646731-21d0-40bc-be57-4a1ced816738%3ALTe55db63a452601de06ce1dd51bb6781b6965d786&variation1=4280905053

ask for:

- champagne petals to be added

- bodice applique embroidery

- terracotta waist cluster 

Thinking like this:

used AI so this isn't the best but: 

Option 1 

Option 2 (this has mesh in the V neckline that ai didn't put)

What do we think?

And for my groom:

Together now: (it started getting wonky with the faces but looking at these I really did want to cry. 

Momma would be helping me make these. 

Champagne applique options:

• https://www.etsy.com/listing/533299686/embroidered-lace-appliques-champagne?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_ps-e-accessories&utm_custom1=_k_CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1GuK3OAktAGcsLQJulnomc_V5WvICzJssAAAqZyEeE1KDEDFMs4_ShoCNZ4QAvD_BwE_k_&utm_content=go_22634396526_180193307669_756461321021_pla-294930372950_c__533299686_12594011&utm_custom2=22634396526&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22634396526&gbraid=0AAAAADtcfRJ4S38uQ3WUSFsa5oSR3mDAE&gclid=CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1GuK3OAktAGcsLQJulnomc_V5WvICzJssAAAqZyEeE1KDEDFMs4_ShoCNZ4QAvD_BwE
• https://www.etsy.com/listing/1843790821/champagne-floral-embroidery-beaded?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_ps-c-craft_supplies_and_tools&utm_custom1=_k_CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1DLTU-3hIGvjCedA4Fi4RA0RL7vYYMfz8GO-Ik0UhrTQegqqa2KPVhoCF5QQAvD_BwE_k_&utm_content=go_22633514805_182190775804_756432245162_pla-295462056867_c__1843790821_12768591&utm_custom2=22633514805&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22633514805&gbraid=0AAAAADtcfRKcH4DflawUr07Dct_n1oM8x&gclid=CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1DLTU-3hIGvjCedA4Fi4RA0RL7vYYMfz8GO-Ik0UhrTQegqqa2KPVhoCF5QQAvD_BwE
• https://www.etsy.com/listing/476990907/bundle-6pcs-champagne-lace-applique-sew?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_c-accessories&utm_custom1=_k_CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1IUJD5OEpNxq6YUdYX9X_N2f0WBS2Xbt3Z0WEnIzM2-YqIYv6DAMixoCE6kQAvD_BwE_k_&utm_content=go_21802015417_169566879078_716586690216_pla-294930372950_c__476990907_509526355&utm_custom2=21802015417&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21802015417&gbraid=0AAAAADtcfRI1KHJjw8vEy_xB4zy_l4-zn&gclid=CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1IUJD5OEpNxq6YUdYX9X_N2f0WBS2Xbt3Z0WEnIzM2-YqIYv6DAMixoCE6kQAvD_BwE
• https://www.laceusa.com/products/95969w-hb-beaded-corded-floral-lace-applique-embroidered-on-100-polyester-net-mesh-lace-usa?variant=43934464901294&country=US&currency=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=&utm_term=&utm_content=745650457121&utm_adgroup={adgroup}&utm_network=g&utm_device=c&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=20200186752&gbraid=0AAAAAo8Yn6y6R8Wkd1APrY8uE4Bw_T3Eg&gclid=CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1IBLVdlEitJeci8A4t0JRvjHngaMhwY2eF59vB5lX2VDXgoRQ0sTVhoCa_UQAvD_BwE

Rhinestone belt inspiration:

• https://www.etsy.com/listing/616305141/lisali-sparkly-wedding-belt-bridal-belt?gpla=1&gao=1&
• https://www.etsy.com/listing/1446611150/silver-jeweled-light-blue-clear-stone?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_en_us_-weddings&utm_custom1=_k_CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1GJEuPqmvl-MHoEsydVnbnoCRUhIz4MQJS5jJeqJBpXDo7mDbV4L_xoCN7gQAvD_BwE_k_&utm_content=go_21791666544_169566863918_716586689181_pla-298195655715_c__1446611150_112046819&utm_custom2=21791666544&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21791666544&gbraid=0AAAAADtcfRL9KQz8MaW5Bm1zQbmd8H-di&gclid=CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1GJEuPqmvl-MHoEsydVnbnoCRUhIz4MQJS5jJeqJBpXDo7mDbV4L_xoCN7gQAvD_BwE
• https://www.etsy.com/listing/4376643105/wide-rhinestone-bridal-belt-crystal?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_en_us_-weddings&utm_custom1=_k_CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1IF2ZzD4Lrjl9HmUzBIi87kPX1fYYeKsZtaNMgzP0Bxy9po_MTwJmBoC5i0QAvD_BwE_k_&utm_content=go_22434678705_178445188936_746194064300_pla-298195655715_c__4376643105_12768591&utm_custom2=22434678705&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22434678705&gbraid=0AAAAADtcfRKaUxlI-z5caPpA7ufVVvELb&gclid=CjwKCAiAwNDMBhBfEiwAd7ti1IF2ZzD4Lrjl9HmUzBIi87kPX1fYYeKsZtaNMgzP0Bxy9po_MTwJmBoC5i0QAvD_BwE

Rhinestones:

• https://www.amazon.com/Handmade-Shining-Rhinestones-Applique-Accessories/dp/B0CHDP41SL/ref=sr_1_53?crid=9NJB64EKDR2N&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9._EK5hN0YAC-jsbONnTlHqqIf-dx5fXOZD35F_id_kYgoH5pqOrJNjFqE9KAHhSa-EisOxKs7Bv9NpNdw3qbhkjIM4RcYCJVoI3XFnyP0Sv3tK_THFWjQ3qy6EEJM-XsmuFpERacyO71y9mUTdtTMb15aBQJR5tPfDTfK7weyZFtg_AEqb0rvzaNTg8fR_7eW35UJLA-jE3PCMMxe8K-Wt_Fk6phSCNTILhSytaOn4bOglJGsnXg2eRklC50Jt4XbTaKsSf-7Y9kc5x8cBjhYoGG9ZKJm_o1TMhQsnrX96r4.sW_tsRz1dzj4iGlXfi1Ng4PjyggD3HqC85nF8B_iKwE&dib_tag=se&keywords=orange%2Bglass%2Brhinestones%2Bfor%2Bsewing&qid=1771367702&sprefix=orange%2Bglass%2Brhinestones%2Bfor%2Bsewing%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-53&th=1
• https://www.amazon.com/uxcell-Rhinestone-Crystal-Applique-Wedding/dp/B0DS9M3XCP/ref=sr_1_15_sspa?crid=9NJB64EKDR2N&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9._EK5hN0YAC-jsbONnTlHqqIf-dx5fXOZD35F_id_kYgoH5pqOrJNjFqE9KAHhSa-EisOxKs7Bv9NpNdw3qbhkjIM4RcYCJVoI3XFnyP0Sv3tK_THFWjQ3qy6EEJM-XsmuFpERacyO71y9mUTdtTMb15aBQJR5tPfDTfK7weyZFtg_AEqb0rvzaNTg8fR_7eW35UJLA-jE3PCMMxe8K-Wt_Fk6phSCNTILhSytaOn4bOglJGsnXg2eRklC50Jt4XbTaKsSf-7Y9kc5x8cBjhYoGG9ZKJm_o1TMhQsnrX96r4.sW_tsRz1dzj4iGlXfi1Ng4PjyggD3HqC85nF8B_iKwE&dib_tag=se&keywords=orange%2Bglass%2Brhinestones%2Bfor%2Bsewing&qid=1771367702&sprefix=orange%2Bglass%2Brhinestones%2Bfor%2Bsewing%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-15-spons&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9tdGY&th=1
• https://www.amazon.com/Different-Rhinestones-Handicrafts-Clothing-Decorations/dp/B07VF1FTBC/ref=sr_1_25?crid=9NJB64EKDR2N&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9._EK5hN0YAC-jsbONnTlHqqIf-dx5fXOZD35F_id_kYgoH5pqOrJNjFqE9KAHhSa-EisOxKs7Bv9NpNdw3qbhkjIM4RcYCJVoI3XFnyP0Sv3tK_THFWjQ3qy6EEJM-XsmuFpERacyO71y9mUTdtTMb15aBQJR5tPfDTfK7weyZFtg_AEqb0rvzaNTg8fR_7eW35UJLA-jE3PCMMxe8K-Wt_Fk6phSCNTILhSytaOn4bOglJGsnXg2eRklC50Jt4XbTaKsSf-7Y9kc5x8cBjhYoGG9ZKJm_o1TMhQsnrX96r4.sW_tsRz1dzj4iGlXfi1Ng4PjyggD3HqC85nF8B_iKwE&dib_tag=se&keywords=orange%2Bglass%2Brhinestones%2Bfor%2Bsewing&qid=1771367702&sprefix=orange%2Bglass%2Brhinestones%2Bfor%2Bsewing%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-25&th=1
• https://www.amazon.com/Colorful-Rhinestones-Halloween-Decorations-Accessories/dp/B0DQ4QFGWR/ref=sr_1_30?crid=9NJB64EKDR2N&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9._EK5hN0YAC-jsbONnTlHqqIf-dx5fXOZD35F_id_kYgoH5pqOrJNjFqE9KAHhSa-EisOxKs7Bv9NpNdw3qbhkjIM4RcYCJVoI3XFnyP0Sv3tK_THFWjQ3qy6EEJM-XsmuFpERacyO71y9mUTdtTMb15aBQJR5tPfDTfK7weyZFtg_AEqb0rvzaNTg8fR_7eW35UJLA-jE3PCMMxe8K-Wt_Fk6phSCNTILhSytaOn4bOglJGsnXg2eRklC50Jt4XbTaKsSf-7Y9kc5x8cBjhYoGG9ZKJm_o1TMhQsnrX96r4.sW_tsRz1dzj4iGlXfi1Ng4PjyggD3HqC85nF8B_iKwE&dib_tag=se&keywords=orange%2Bglass%2Brhinestones%2Bfor%2Bsewing&qid=1771367702&sprefix=orange%2Bglass%2Brhinestones%2Bfor%2Bsewing%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-30&th=1
• https://www.amazon.com/Heyiwell-Crystal-Rhinestone-Flatback-Setting/dp/B0CS1NSN35/ref=sr_1_2?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9._EK5hN0YAC-jsbONnTlHqvPn60EYQjXPXiDn0O1RmT1KRjfV1pmVWCMEEOdtD9z1hr35rKHUBrDSqoBZtktVAgq_tKTzn5u-f0Z_gpfRLimi5aZev3dpbchybHab4REiyru9pTz2k5K_PArNpgONfAQQ8UHm13JFOIci7UD-TVhzTP6wJ4Y6yCx-1OZCPWW8JpjT4d49X07rT6ZEmTSe5QAItXd3K9atJ0RrPX0QxKGINFq9T6uCUy1ibwOTjFQxVLM1LRWltUO5551G5N4dh_uhxBN7gI5gMXf2JgYOKw0.v_rH7o8-9r-66Tn_6Dx9NtM-1IM9APKMMmbYfA4z7f4&dib_tag=se&keywords=orange%2Bglass%2Brhinestones%2Bfor%2Bsewing&qid=1771368273&sr=8-2&th=1

Or if  we don't go with it...there is this dress already made on Etsy that she lady who does it said can switch the neckline to a sweetheart neckline. Which could also really work 

https://www.etsy.com/listing/4312302239/blossom-dusky-blue-corset-dress-evening

For a more traditional dress I could get this one in champagne. 

https://www.etsy.com/listing/4422013717/floral-wedding-dress-a-line-embroidered