Ya wanna know a theory I have?
I feel like most burnt-out overwhelmed/underwhelmed former gifted kids who grow up to develop a praise kink/dom-sub dynamic... do it because being told "good job/girl/boy" "well done" and completing schooled tasks and receiving a reward... gives the same feeling and dose of serotonin that getting a good grade on a test use to give us.
I just want that A. only now, instead of getting an A on a test for studying and working hard... I earn a beer or a night out at the bar.
"You've more than earned it"
That just made me illogically happy and feel good about myself.
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