Sunday, January 25, 2015

Just my luck

So I have 2 small crushes. One is a guy from work ( not going anywhere, because *cough* lesbian*cough*) and the other is a really cute girl from my archeology class who happens to be asexual and grey-romantic. Just my luck.

Now for those of you who don't know: asexual is a sexual orientation just like hetero, homo, and bi sexuality. Where as those are the attraction to others in a sexual way, asexuals lack sexual attraction. They do not desire or crave sex. It's not the same thing as being celibate, celibacy is a choice. 

She happens to be grey romantic. Which is a cross between romantic (wanting to have a intimate and romantic relationship) and aromantic (not wanting a romantic relationship). (Keep in mind sexual people can be aromantic... All sex no commitment)

I talked with her and the way she explains it is that she doesn't get crushed very often. She can count the number of of crushes she has ever had on one hand. 1. And she thinks that she might actually be demiromantic (you have to have a strong emotional bond to want a romantic relationship) because she had been best friends with the person for 6 years before she developed the crush.


Lol. Just my luck.

Still, life goes on and C'est La Vie

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